Yahoo Messenger: 11 November 2000 05:01 PM

Subject: in my mind, you are the first

julietscity: hello...

julietscity: Haha... Did you get drunk last night?

julietscity: You are late this morning

julietscity: Hellooooooooooooooooooooooooo

romeobanglore: hello

romeobanglore: sorry...I am late

julietscity: got toooooo drunk...

romeobanglore: no...a little...

romeobanglore: I woke up at 9:55!

julietscity: Wow...

julietscity: Sing a song for me!!

julietscity: Make sure you are in good shape

romeobanglore: another day for you and me in paradise

julietscity: is it a song?

romeobanglore: yes

julietscity: I thought you would sing...Bye-bye...American Pie

romeobanglore: bye-bye is not good for beginning

julietscity: ok...

julietscity: 2 emails I forwarded to you are their stories

julietscity: About Indian couples working in the US

romeobanglore: and...

julietscity: I asked them how they were and what problems they might encounter in the United States. They worked there for six years... if I remember correctly...

romeobanglore: ???

romeobanglore: what he said?

julietscity: Hema's husband gave me his account on Yahoo... because Hema is busy taking care of her baby... her husband would check the emails I sent

julietscity: I told you Hema's husband works in Los Angeles, right?

romeobanglore: you told now

julietscity: really?

romeobanglore: yes.

julietscity: I was chatting with Hema, and she suggested that there would be more opportunities to work in the United States

romeobanglore: yes, I remember about that

julietscity: so...how's your friend?

romeobanglore: is he sleeping?

julietscity: the friend from somewhere and met you last night at your house?

romeobanglore: everyone is sleeping...he slept at 3 o'clock this morning

romeobanglore: yes

julietscity: WOW!!! You tell me you drank a little... but from 5:30 pm to 3 am... you have a lot of wine in your belly

romeobanglore: no...I just gave company...only 2 beers

romeobanglore: he is my classmate...we chatted of our old days in college

julietscity: Did you tell Ojas that you would go to work in the US earlier than them?

romeobanglore: they know that...it's not possible for everyone to go in one flight

julietscity: yes... But in the same city, this is also impossible.

romeobanglore: but somewhere near

romeobanglore: where we can meet at least on weekends

julietscity: ahh...your weekend with them...they don't like me...

julietscity: so I might stay at home alone

romeobanglore: yes...but the main places are California, New Jersey, North Carolina, Chicago, Atlanta, etc.

romeobanglore: no...you will be with me

julietscity: really?

romeobanglore: YES

julietscity: The lady I met on the train, she traveled twice a year, her new boyfriend lives in North Carolina, and she plans to go there to study

romeobanglore: why didn't you ask her about studying there?

julietscity: I can search that information from website...it's easy

romeobanglore: start it soon

romeobanglore: Monday I will attend the interview of the consultant

julietscity: ok...money discussion

romeobanglore: ok

romeobanglore: if you are staying outside... with me

romeobanglore: but there are some courses, which says that you have to live in hostel

julietscity: I don't understand!

romeobanglore: in the US, you will be stated in my house, right?

romeobanglore: so you may not have to pay boarding charges

romeobanglore: whatever you do...be careful to know the full details

julietscity: ok

romeobanglore: and do it fast...I want to know

julietscity: you know... Some details are all from the English website... you are easy to read...

romeobanglore: which website?

julietscity: We can go to some websites and read them later, but...

julietscity: I still have my own problems.

romeobanglore: but?

romeobanglore: what?

julietscity: My investment doesn't pay off my debt early... and... I don't want you to think I want money

romeobanglore: no...I know it is for us.

julietscity: You know... at the beginning of our relationship... I don't want to discuss money with you

romeobanglore: once you come to the US, you don't need any money

julietscity: and I know you have to save some money for further studies in the US... you need to do that

romeobanglore: no...no study for me

romeobanglore: I don't plan to study

julietscity: YES...the master's degree you wish to major in marketing, right?

romeobanglore: no...that is not a big aim for me...

romeobanglore: it is just a thought

romeobanglore: you know after one year, I will get a lot of more money

julietscity: Dreams you once have

romeobanglore: that's not the dream

romeobanglore: you should not think of that

julietscity: what's your dream on your work

romeobanglore: to go up in technical field...

romeobanglore: not on marketing...I am a bit late to choose marketing

julietscity: so...does it needs any further advance studying?

romeobanglore: no, it doesn't

julietscity: why?

romeobanglore: you need experience

romeobanglore: that's all

julietscity: oh...

romeobanglore: see...I don't plan for any higher studies in the US...at least for the next 5 years

julietscity: how many years will you stay in the US?

romeobanglore: I go there for 2 things...first is YOU...second is money

romeobanglore: don't know...I might settle there

julietscity: I think I became your money burden

romeobanglore: no.

romeobanglore: after some time, you will also get a job there.

julietscity: I'll go there first... but if I can't find any job there and make my own money... I will return to S City, ok?

romeobanglore: if you had studied TOEFL, it would have been very easy

julietscity: to get the job?

romeobanglore: you can find part-time jobs

julietscity: ok... No matter what I can get a job or not... promise me... if I can't get more money to pay off my own debt and insurance... I will return to S city to find a job here...ok?

romeobanglore: no

julietscity: my debt is my own problem

julietscity: I really don't want you to pay it

romeobanglore: LISTEN

romeobanglore: TO ME

romeobanglore: no...if you come with me...there is no question of debt

romeobanglore: you are my girl and I have to look after you

julietscity: oh...please...

romeobanglore: yes

julietscity: you know one thing...

julietscity: When you said you are going to pay my tuition... my tears fell down

romeobanglore: what?

julietscity: so...it's enough for you.

romeobanglore: no...I mean it

julietscity: When I started making money, I knew I would lend money to help my friends, cause I am capable of. Opening my mouth to ask men for money is a very difficult matter.

julietscity: you make me cry now!

romeobanglore: no...you must not think like that

romeobanglore: u can cry...but I want things to be fixed

romeobanglore: hey

romeobanglore: heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

romeobanglore: if we have 1 year, I can get more money

romeobanglore: I will leave this consultant now. I will look for some other willing to pay me more.

julietscity: Do you really want to pay for my tuition?

romeobanglore: yes

julietscity: Now you can think more ... it's a heavy burden for you

romeobanglore: no

julietscity: You can think more, but don't answer me early

romeobanglore: whatever...I want you to be there

romeobanglore: or else, why should I go there?

julietscity: Remember, I have invited you here for the first year. You tell me you may be a slave to love but not a slave to money

romeobanglore: yes...

romeobanglore: I want to come there

julietscity: For men, women are taken care of because they are a couple, and men are responsible for women and their families

romeobanglore: yes

julietscity: First, you should take care of your siblings.

julietscity: that is your commitment to your parents

romeobanglore: I can't say they are first and you are the second

julietscity: I know...but I want your family to become the first

romeobanglore: in my mind, you are the first