Yahoo Messenger: 24 November 2000 10:22 PM

Subject: Asians and Indians

julietscity: hi

romeobanglore: hello

romeobanglore: why so early?

julietscity: also busy? for several days?

romeobanglore: not that much

julietscity: but I didn't talk to you these days

romeobanglore: you also was very busy, right?

julietscity: even though I'm busy ... I can still go home and read your mail... but I don't seem to receive your mail. I yelled at the office today

romeobanglore: hey...so slow...

romeobanglore: why?

julietscity: Seems to have reached my limit

romeobanglore: I sent you mails, but not big enough, I know......

julietscity: I don't want to work there

romeobanglore: why you were so angry?

romeobanglore: you know you can sit on your bed and talk

romeobanglore: you don't like to work in the new company also!

romeobanglore: but what is the reason?

julietscity: the reason is I am toooooooooooo tired

julietscity: leave it

romeobanglore: take break

romeobanglore: today...go early to sleep

julietscity: I always have many words to talk to you

romeobanglore: what are they?

julietscity: I have to go to bed early, I must go to my office at 7:00 tomorrow morning

romeobanglore: tell...

julietscity: and om Sunday also

romeobanglore: too bad!

romeobanglore: why don't you ask to recruit someone to assist you?

julietscity: No...company said No. I almost forgot the time without you...I replied to emails to Sylvia and Anshu

romeobanglore: who is Anshu?

romeobanglore: you can ask your boss to get an assistant for you

julietscity: This is a small company with no budget to recruit others ... and my partner, he is a... I do not know how to say it

julietscity: Anshu is from India and lives in S City

julietscity: He is a friend of Sylvia and they have known each other for almost 3 years.

romeobanglore: but then someone in your office can help you

romeobanglore: how did you get to know Anshu?

julietscity: Anshu works for a trading company here

julietscity: NO ONE in my office... Only I am the one who keeps answering three phone lines

julietscity: Anshu is a client of Sylvia, who owns a trading company here. But she moved to Spain with her boyfriend.

julietscity: you logged out and in?

romeobanglore: what does he say?

julietscity: did you get my message?

romeobanglore: my connection is not at all good today!

romeobanglore: yes...Anshu was the customer of Sylvia

julietscity: say what?

julietscity: about marriage? or go to work in the US?

julietscity: They used to do business

julietscity: Anshu's company is very close to ours

romeobanglore: what does he say in general?

romeobanglore: what did you ask him?

romeobanglore: and what he replied?

julietscity: he said don't fall in love with Indian

julietscity: it's not a good idea for an Asian to marry Indian. If we both plan to go to the US

julietscity: and settle down there...and it's fine...but...he won't suggest me to do that

romeobanglore: why?

romeobanglore: why he said so?

julietscity: he knows his friends also face the same problems

romeobanglore: it is very strange!!!!

romeobanglore: helloooooooooo

julietscity: The girl was Japanese and the boy was Indian. They provided some documents for the Indians to work there, but the government did not accept it. In the end, the boy had to leave.

romeobanglore: but why Asians and Indians?

julietscity: and he mentioned the love or marriage in Indian, it should be the grace of God and the blessings of elders.

romeobanglore: why he is against the US?

julietscity: This means that Indians are very conservative and do not easily accept any foreigners.

romeobanglore: both of them could have gone to the US

romeobanglore: that's the typical view of the traditional Indian society...but the new generation doesn't believe in it

julietscity: sorry... My description is bad ... he won't suggest me to do this ... OK ... can I forward the message to you? I don't want to repeat what others say

romeobanglore: ok

julietscity: He is your new generation, as Sylvia told me, he is only 22-23 years old

romeobanglore: maybe he is from too conservative family...I don't believe in his idea

julietscity: Sorry...YOU toooooooooooooooo

romeobanglore: wait for 5 minutes...I need to piss

julietscity: The only different is

romeobanglore: there is a difference

romeobanglore: he believes in it...but I don't ...I am forced

julietscity: The only difference is that he has some kind of religion and he believes in God

julietscity: You two are the same, and under the same circumstances, never accept a foreigner as an Indian wife

romeobanglore: no...he said, it is the grace from elders...I don't think it is a grace

romeobanglore: it is a chain

julietscity: it's a grace from God, and the blessing form elders

julietscity: I have sent it to you...

romeobanglore: I don't think it is a blessing from elders

julietscity: BUT you accept it from all elders such as your those relatives

julietscity: At the first day...oh...you have to go to piss

romeobanglore: because I am forced. Why don't you understand the difference?

julietscity: Because the difference comes to the same conclusion.

julietscity: You didn't say you can change it as a revolution

romeobanglore: yes...the result is the same, but the cause is different

julietscity: HA! For me...it's all the same

romeobanglore: a mango falling from a tree is different from someone throwing it and bring it down

julietscity: Go to PISS

romeobanglore: maybe the next generation, the children of this generation will not face such problems

romeobanglore: ok...I will piss and come back

julietscity: I am too old to face it. My next life won't be happened again like now.

romeobanglore: I understand the feeling...but you never believe that I have the same feelings

julietscity: ok...you are back

romeobanglore: you think it is all because I don't love you that much

romeobanglore: and so I don't try

romeobanglore: that's what you believe

julietscity: NO...I don't think like that now.... for the first time...while...Arghhh...

julietscity: Can you stop the discussion now?

romeobanglore: you continue

julietscity: Ok, I won't discuss with you what any man said

romeobanglore: I am not supposed to say anything

romeobanglore: why? I never told that there is anything wrong with Anshu.

romeobanglore: I was talking about you

julietscity: OK, it's a deal... Don't talk about other people who have different opinions on any topic, especially Indians

romeobanglore: what deal?

julietscity: No... You also don't like my intention to talk about your ideas somehow

romeobanglore: I don't understand you...you think that I don't like you talking to any other man? the topic, it doesn't matter whether it's a man or woman

julietscity: don't mention any other man's view to you

romeobanglore: I was talking about your views to Anshu's...because I am not concerned about his views

julietscity: you said that you are not supposed to say anything?

julietscity: it means...I accept Anshu's but not yours...

romeobanglore: because you told me to STOP

romeobanglore: I didn't mean that...your view...I am not interested from where you got the view...maybe Anshu, Sylvia, Hardik, Reddy or Hema or anyone

julietscity: Because you said that I think you don't love me that much...and those words

romeobanglore: that's what I feel when I hear your words

julietscity: Great...they all Indians...except Sylvia

julietscity: I know you hate those words I ask for help in Indian chat rooms

romeobanglore: I don't mind whether they are Indians or Kenyans or from Uganda

romeobanglore: Reddy and Hema are sensible...they really understand the problem

julietscity: It's my problem...ok...I can handle it ok?

romeobanglore: Anshu and Hardik is all romanticism...without any base

romeobanglore: yes! we have started to differentiate problems...your problems and my problems. I should not interfere in yours and vice-versa, right?

julietscity: Did you receive the Anshu mail I forwarded? He isn't the romanticism, he is...

julietscity: HEY...please

romeobanglore: I got the mail...I said after reading it

romeobanglore: "I think marriage is an excellent achievement of someone's life which should come at least ones in their life. It is a wonderful tradition to joint to hearts and their souls forever with the grace of God and blessing of elders which really does matter"

julietscity: I said...it's my problem, means... understanding and solving all these issues is just my choice

romeobanglore: WHAT does that mean?

romeobanglore: yes...and that you will handle it

julietscity: He is engaged to a girl who is arranged by his parents

julietscity: so...what do I think?

romeobanglore: and that I don't have anything to do with it

julietscity: How can you do anything for me? You know that!!! How can you?

romeobanglore: ok...you wanted to talk some other things, right...what are they?

julietscity: To make the 2 old people sad for the rest of their life? You told me before...and every night...I have to think of it about your parents crying and even Your MOM's crying...I have dreamed of it

romeobanglore: I may not be able to do anything...but the thing is you don't want to share

julietscity: How to share? Share you with another bride who married you?

romeobanglore: I told you that there can be......no...you don't want to listen to it...it's your deal

romeobanglore: that is all when I marry another one...but now...I have not married anyone else

romeobanglore: but you want to keep your problems to yourself

julietscity: After marrying someone ... all the promises disappeared at the same time

julietscity: Do you think so? Who can help me solve my problem after separation?

romeobanglore: and what did I promise? I promised only what I am 100% sure of...no guesses

romeobanglore: you don't have to believe me...but till my last breath, I will be there

julietscity: It's just me who decides where and how to live

julietscity: be there to bury my dead body?

romeobanglore: if that is where you need me...I will be there

julietscity: Thank you

julietscity: I don't want to give you pressure, so we can stop without discussing those ...

romeobanglore: believe me or not

julietscity: Now, because you have signed a document to work in the United States ... and we don't know the timetable ... so it's best not to discuss it

romeobanglore: ok

romeobanglore: 5 minutes

julietscity: Whenever you say "believe it or not" ... you never know how I feel about this sentence ...

julietscity: I hate that!!!!!!!!

julietscity: You have to push me away to keep your ego higher than me

julietscity: If you want to enjoy it, yes ... you did affect me, and every time you say it frustrates me

romeobanglore: my ego? I don't know how it comes here?

julietscity: That's enough...I have to take shower and sleep early for tomorrow

romeobanglore: if I had some ego, I would never have talked to you in such an emotional way

romeobanglore: you said that you have something to say, right?

romeobanglore: tell...

julietscity: NO...I can't

romeobanglore: I am sorry for all these

romeobanglore: when I start to chat, I never want to end like this...I know you also...

julietscity: I feel extremely sad

romeobanglore: but....we sometimes wander

julietscity: you always make me cry

romeobanglore: I know honey...I also...

romeobanglore: I don't have anything to hide from you...that is why I show my emotion

romeobanglore: you know if it was so easy for me to cry, I would have...but I can not

julietscity: so... All tears come from my eyes

romeobanglore: kiss your tears from your eyes..........

romeobanglore: it's not tears for me...

romeobanglore: but it's the same feeling

julietscity: ok...bye...have a nice weekend