Yahoo Messenger: 16 December 2000 05:32 PM

Subject: it won't happen again, I promise

julietscity: promise me one thing...

romeobanglore: that is my pleasure, my honey

romeobanglore: what?

julietscity: When we are together ... you will never leave me alone

julietscity: You used to leave me alone ... in Frankfurt

romeobanglore: when?

julietscity: When we were walking on the road ... you walked alone and then crossed the road ... then you didn't even turn back, so I was left on the other side of the road.

julietscity: at that moment... I felt crying...

romeobanglore: where?

julietscity: When a bus passed ... I couldn't see you, suddenly a picture of a Jurassic Park movie comes to my mind ... Sometimes I remember it ...

romeobanglore: where it was?

romeobanglore: near the hotel?

julietscity: Another I shouted in my head: "You left me ..." This is the scene in the movie ... When Dr. Allen left Lex and Tim facing the dinosaur alone, Lex stood there shouting in horror "He left us...He left us...".

romeobanglore: yes...I remember the movie

julietscity: that's what I felt crying at that time...

julietscity: "you left me..." alone behind you

romeobanglore: but where in Frankfurt was this?

romeobanglore: I don't remember!

julietscity: The day we went out for pizza for lunch.

romeobanglore: ohhh......sorry honey...I never had any thought like that

julietscity: When we tried to cross the road to the back door of the mall

julietscity: I know... You said nothing at that time... you just didn't hold my hand when we crossed the road...

romeobanglore: you know...in crossing roads, I am very rash...I always try to cross at the first opportunity...that might have been the reason

julietscity: and I told myself...you still not get used to being that one who has a companion

romeobanglore: yes... I never had such a close girl with me while crossing a road...

julietscity: yes...but you left me behind... You're standing there by the road, watching me standing across the road

romeobanglore: but yes....now I remember...it had happened to me once before!

romeobanglore: sorry honey...it won't happen again, I promise...

julietscity: But I told you that crossing the road is one of my problems ... I told you how Michael took me across the road

romeobanglore: no...you didn't tell

julietscity: Finally, you turned to see that I was still standing across the road ... my eyes were a bit wet ... I couldn't let you find out ... so I turned to watch the bus passing and tried to cross the road alone.

romeobanglore: sorry honey...I will never repeat it again

julietscity: I didn't tell you the details, but the day Michael arrived in my office ... I wrote it in the email ... I didn't take it as an issue

romeobanglore: no...you didn't!

romeobanglore: I never knew that...that will be the last time...never let it happen again

julietscity: What I want you to do... hold my hand whenever I am with you... anywhere... especially in a strange country... and many strangers

romeobanglore: yes...I will, I WILL

romeobanglore: PROMISE

julietscity: did I tell you how Mr. Li treats his wife?

romeobanglore: now give me your charming smile

romeobanglore: yes, once you did

julietscity: Every time ... anywhere ... Mr. Li will ask the people there ... "Where is Mrs. Li", all of us must reply to him, where is she ... even if he is interviewed on TV is also like this.

romeobanglore: hmmm...

romeobanglore: honey...

julietscity: yes

romeobanglore: smile now

romeobanglore: or I will tickle you!

julietscity: another time was...

romeobanglore: ?

julietscity: When I was invited to your friends' room in Frankfurt

julietscity: I like to be with your friends

romeobanglore: what happened then?

julietscity: but... You were chatting happily with them, it seemed that I was not there...

julietscity: After a while ... a friend of yours asked me questions about directions and I started to be noticed.

romeobanglore: I remember that...but when I tried to bring you into chat, you only spoke one or two words! so I thought you don't like to chat with them!

julietscity: yes... We sat together next to you ... you knew where I was ... but

romeobanglore: what happened when you started to talk?

julietscity: hey... I was a stranger there to your friends...how to chat like a popular girl

romeobanglore: yes...but when I asked you some questions, you just said one or two words...

julietscity: no...no...nothing special to blame on you...just wish you to take care of me

romeobanglore: and the other thing was, you didn't accept the sweet from Kiran...so I thought you don't like the company

julietscity: Not Kiran... It's the food made by short men

romeobanglore: I really wanted you to be one of us! That is why I asked you some questions...but see...that was your first time with my friends... it might take some time...you know

julietscity: after that...we went to Kiran's room

romeobanglore: yes...maybe...so I thought you want to go to our room

romeobanglore: you didn't take what Kiran gave us, right?

julietscity: Kiran seemed to want to treat us ice cream, right?

romeobanglore: yes

julietscity: ice cream...it's cold for me...

julietscity: and the point is...tell you another story

romeobanglore: all of them wanted to be friendly with you and please you...but when you didn't take Kiran's ice cream, I saw his face getting sad, so I took two of them with me

romeobanglore: not to hurt him!

julietscity: My cousin's new wife came to my house last year, and that was her first visit to our house.

romeobanglore: and

julietscity: haha...yes...you took 2 of them...it's pretty cold, right?

romeobanglore: yes it was very cold...I didn't eat one...I kept in our refrigerator

julietscity: my cousin played cards game with my brothers and chatted with us very usually, but I found the new wife not the comfortable at first...so...we started to discuss this issue...

julietscity: no...you didn't bring anything home...I guessed...

romeobanglore: did I eat the second one? I think not! because actually I didn't want it!

romeobanglore: and what did your cousin say?

julietscity: I told my cousin that the newcomer might not know where our cups or other things are ... he should take her around in the house, tell her where the things are ... and become her eyes or hands to help her.

romeobanglore: hmmmm...

julietscity: and finally... My sister-in-law, my cousin's wife and I ... began to blame my cousin ... Of course, we were joking about it

romeobanglore: all women! poor cousins!

julietscity: Then... from that moment... she knew we were supporting her... she hasn't felt uncomfortable since then

romeobanglore: hmmmm......I will take care of this also

romeobanglore: next time

julietscity: yes... For men ... you may neglect your wife's adaptation to the new environment ... she married you, yes, but you must help her adapt to other relatives...

romeobanglore: yes mam

julietscity: and new relative's house

romeobanglore: ok mam!