Yahoo Messenger: 1st January 2001 06:26 PM

Subject: Long-distance love is the hardest thing to succeed!!!!!

julietscity: Long-distance love is the hardest thing to succeed!!!!!

julietscity: Maybe before we live together... I have increased a lot of complaints, and... even after that, you have surprising ideas for me... but sorry... I refuse to try more... then no matter how different it will be after living together ... it won't make me feel good

romeobanglore: now since we are far away, we have lots of expectations and dreams and hopes...that keeps our passion going

julietscity: it's complicate...

romeobanglore: when the desire for each other ends, life starts to feel boring

julietscity: those dreams or hopes... If it happens to any woman or man ... it can still go on ... it's not the point ... the point is beforehand... well... forget it

romeobanglore: since we are not together, we still have hopes and dreams and desire, when we start to live together, this all can lose. We need more surprises then

romeobanglore: it is difficult to take our hopes and dreams to some other person because we have not had enough of each other when we have enough of each other, it can happen

julietscity: if you always think like that...chance will lose very soon...

romeobanglore: so living together is more dangerous! hahahaha

romeobanglore: anyway...leave it...

romeobanglore: I don't know...I feel as long as we have the desire for each other, it's ok...otherwise...

romeobanglore: helloooo

julietscity: yes...

julietscity: I was thinking

romeobanglore: what?

julietscity: there's something strange in my head ... you won't want to know

romeobanglore: I want to know

julietscity: all make people feel sad

romeobanglore: yes, honey, I want to share your thoughts

julietscity: If I said ... I want to give up everything ... because your thought is "We live so far away from each other, then we don't have to give any surprises now ..." What would you think?

romeobanglore: hey...

romeobanglore: I will think that you misunderstood me!

julietscity: no...you really act like that

romeobanglore: and you did! che! I didn't say that there is no need for surprise because we live far away! I said that we need MORE surprises when we live together

romeobanglore: of course not acting...I now think that you misunderstood me!

julietscity: okokoko...

julietscity: I told you, you won't want to know

romeobanglore: I really know that surprises make life

romeobanglore: that's my philosophy also...

romeobanglore: of course I wish to know...and I don't regret it...

julietscity: but your philosophy is only used when people live together

romeobanglore: see, if you didn't tell me, how can we remove the problem?

romeobanglore: we have to be open and frank to each other

romeobanglore: I didn't say "only"

romeobanglore: I said "more"

romeobanglore: that is the misunderstanding

romeobanglore: just read what I said earlier

julietscity: okokok... I can't judge the meaning of special words ... but I have such an idea based on the facts ... and my mind just came up with it

romeobanglore: honey

romeobanglore: no......of course not...

romeobanglore: see...if you didn't tell me this, you would have had this misunderstanding forever...and that will always disturb you

julietscity: The fact is... When these things happen ... there is only one thing in my mind ... just want to forget it ... and I also know it is dangerous to me ... my mind will never eliminate any complaints

romeobanglore: I never said and will never say that life needs surprise only while living together

romeobanglore: my mind also is the same

julietscity: please... Not being misunderstood by "only" or "more"! I don't care what word you say ... because you mentioned it, but it doesn't match what you did ... so it reminds me

romeobanglore: life needs surprise always...remember, once I sent you a powerpoint presentation saying "believe in miracles"

romeobanglore: let me tell you one thing...you told that surprises are needed more because we're far away...and I told that we need surprises more when we live together

julietscity: you know...ok...ok...

julietscity: you are right

romeobanglore: I have always believed that every day should be a special day...tomorrow should be different from today...every moment should be surprised...that is what I believe as my philosophy

julietscity: and... If you believe ... then your past days should be full of surprises...

romeobanglore: I think what happened is you thought that I was opposing your opinion...that's why you felt bad.

julietscity: why didn't I share your surprise at any time?

romeobanglore: It's the wish, you know for a surprise...but days come without any surprise today is still like yesterday...but I still hope for a different tomorrow...you understand?

romeobanglore: you know the surprises that happened to me during the last 2 years? only 2 or 3...

romeobanglore: and the biggest surprise was when you said that you will come to Frankfurt if I invite you...

julietscity: That's not the surprise I need ... I always need a small surprise in your common life ... but it seems impossible ... because we live far away from miles... and we can't help it

romeobanglore: hellooooo

romeobanglore: in that way you are right...

romeobanglore: it is a bit difficult when we live far away

julietscity: You will say ... I already know the situation ... so there is no surprise between us

romeobanglore: when did I say that?

julietscity: NO! In this way...is the point I tried to explain my words to you...

julietscity: of course... You didn't say there was no surprise between us ... that kind of words ... but in the end, I got a situation like this

romeobanglore: it is difficult to surprise each other in day-to-day life if we live far away

romeobanglore: when was that?

julietscity: when I asked, " do you forget anything?"...you felt ashamed because I won't say anything to you...(now...this word can't be told any more)

romeobanglore: yes...you didn't tell me...I didn't know what you meant... even now I don't know what you mean by that

julietscity: That's the surprise I hope to get from you...

romeobanglore: but what was there? there wasn't anything for me to tell...

julietscity: and I thought that you might give me a surprise so...I couldn't wait for asking...but I still tried to tell myself...maybe it would come...so I told you that I will tell you someday

romeobanglore: I didn't have any surprise to you that time...surprises cannot be planned!

romeobanglore: see...if I ask you for a surprise now, what you can do?

julietscity: After experiencing a surprise period ... no surprises for me ... now you tell me how important it is to make your life a pleasant surprise

romeobanglore: it is important to live with surprise, but you can't expect it! if you expect it, it's not a surprise

julietscity: Before you ask ... I will try to give you a surprise ... but the surprise you said cannot be planned... but for me, that is wrong ... I will plan some for you surprise on a special day

romeobanglore: there was no surprise to you at that time! how can you surprise a person just within a minute?

romeobanglore: only that day...but you didn't have many surprises for me also, right?

romeobanglore: the Frankfurt visit was a surprise...other than that

julietscity: nonono...! People always expect... this is common... when you expect it and then it becomes true... it's a big surprise... because you want it to achieve... and it does... this a surprise

romeobanglore: that is a dream, not expect, expect means that you know it will happen

romeobanglore: see...it is difficult to surprise at short notice!