Yahoo Messenger: 21 January 2001 03:22 PM

Subject: I am taking precautions

julietscity: you may not be able to check your email before we return to S City

julietscity: so you better email your friends today

romeobanglore: I need to send mail to my friends saying that I have reached there safely...

romeobanglore: we need to go to a cyber cafe

julietscity: Tell them you will only go back in February ... when you come to the airport ... you should call Ojas or Mahendra ... let them know you are safe here with me

julietscity: we can call them from the airport

julietscity: hello

romeobanglore: no...and if there is something urgent here, which I should know, how will my friends contact me?

romeobanglore: last time they were angry that I didn't send them any mail

julietscity: We may not have time to find a cyber cafe...

romeobanglore: yes

romeobanglore: but...why we can't go to a cyber cafe?

julietscity: If there is an emergency, they can contact my cellphone

julietscity: Leave them my mobile number and we will always carry it even when we are in bed

romeobanglore: we can ask someone...not the first day...maybe a second or third day...

romeobanglore: hello

julietscity: in K city... it's not a popular place to look for cyber cafes...ok... Maybe before we go to K City by bus at night ... but ... it's a long vacation for people here ... some shops may be closed for a few days

julietscity: First, call Ojas at the airport ... then find the cyber cafe before going to K City

romeobanglore: it's ok...maybe a third or second day will be ok...I just need to check my mails

romeobanglore: ok

julietscity: the K city there is more like a small town...finding a cafe is not so easy, let alone finding a cyber cafe

romeobanglore: hmm...let's see

julietscity: Please call ... and check the mail after returning to S city...

romeobanglore: ok

julietscity: Why is there an urgent mail you must check?

romeobanglore: no...if there is something...

julietscity: You are on vacation ... what do you need to do in an emergency?

romeobanglore: I don't know...it's just something unexpected...

julietscity: what can you do? If people are on vacation abroad, will they fly back once they receive an urgent message?

romeobanglore: no...I can at least tell them what to do

julietscity: Can no one in your office solve your problem?

romeobanglore: it may not be just office problems

julietscity: like what?

julietscity: Do you still have some problems you didn't tell me?

romeobanglore: I don't expect any problems...but if something comes up...

romeobanglore: like my parents want to speak to me urgently

julietscity: hey... If you worry about these things, why do people take vacations ... just want to live days that is not bothered

julietscity: so... Call your parents every day to make sure they are doing well...

romeobanglore: but I am in another country, no one except my friends know where I am...they will be worried about me if they could not find me

julietscity: Why are you worried about those things now?

romeobanglore: I don't worry...it is just a precaution

julietscity: The old days ... before using email ... how do people connect with each other?

romeobanglore: that time they used to write regularly...

julietscity: Your parents want to talk to you urgently... If something happens and they need you there, what can you do that you are miles away from them?

romeobanglore: I can tell my friends what to do

romeobanglore: or just to know that they have such a problem

romeobanglore: that is what I said, then I can tell my friends something to do according to the situation

julietscity: hey... You are with me and on vacation ... if you are worried about these things ... why come here for so many days ... you can shorten the vacation for your work or parents

romeobanglore: who said I am worried? I am taking precautions

julietscity: If you're with me ... it's a vacation without thinking about any office matters ... why do you have to think about any issues that colleagues can't solve?

romeobanglore: why you don't understand that?

julietscity: No one is so important in the office ... because when people leave ... the work continues ... the sun still rises from the east

romeobanglore: I told you, it is not office problems

julietscity: ok. what's else?

julietscity: Have your parents encountered any problems these days?

romeobanglore: it is different in a software company...no one other than I will be able to understand and solve any problems even in office...

romeobanglore: because the software is complex

romeobanglore: ok...leave it

romeobanglore: I told you family problems

romeobanglore: NO

julietscity: why?

julietscity: your parents get ill?

romeobanglore: I told you 1000 times that there is no problem now...who knows tomorrow my mother may die

romeobanglore: and I am not supposed to know it?

julietscity: Stay in India forever ... If you come here and one of your parents dies ... then it will always be my fault ... so ...

romeobanglore: good solution...

romeobanglore: If I go somewhere and something happens in my house, how can the person I am visiting be guilty?

julietscity: because that person invited you here to stay away from your family...

romeobanglore: but the decision to go or not to go is mine

julietscity: Something happened and you are not there ... people will say ... this is because you came to meet that person

romeobanglore: and no one can blame anyone for anything like that! you are overreacting!

julietscity: so... If you decide to come... then some things just happen in your family... what would you do?

julietscity: hey... Among your family or friends ... no one agreed that you come here to meet me ... this is true and a fact

romeobanglore: I don't know...that can be decided then...but the important thing is that I need to know

julietscity: Something happens and I will be blamed ... it is also true

romeobanglore: how can you be blamed? it was my decision to come there

romeobanglore: are you afraid of all those things?

julietscity: be blamed by people? No ... I will be blamed by only you ... Even if you don't think so now ... But someday it will be

romeobanglore: so you know what is going to happen in the future?

julietscity: What will happen to your parents?

julietscity: Do they have a fight recently?

romeobanglore: you say that you know what is going to happen to my character...you know me better than me, it seems...so u can predict my future

julietscity: Or did they learn something from your friends? Or something about your brother and sister? Or something like money matters?

romeobanglore: no...I told you, I don't know anything of any sort...but it might happen, who knows?

julietscity: last time...you didn't mention the worry on your parents...why this time?

romeobanglore: last time, I knew you had a computer in your house...so I thought I can send mails...so no problem

julietscity: There may not have anything happened, why do you think they will happen?

julietscity: ok... You stay in S city, go to the cyber cafe every day to check all your mails ... I still go to K city by myself

romeobanglore: I didn't think that it will happen...I told you, it's just precaution

romeobanglore: nice

romeobanglore: why are you so much against me sending mails?

julietscity: I don't understand why checking emails is important this time?

julietscity: because in K city, you cannot check any mail in 3 or 4 days

romeobanglore: last time also it was important...when I didn't send them emails, they were angry...and you know last time my father had called up here

julietscity: Every day we open our eyes, finding a cyber cafe for checking emails becomes a stress

romeobanglore: to speak to me...my friends didn't tell where I was...my father asked me to call back...my friends sent a mail saying that...but I didn't read the mail

romeobanglore: you don't worry about it

julietscity: Yes...When you are here ... it becomes an annoyance that I have to worry about

romeobanglore: and I don't want to go there every day

romeobanglore:no...it's my problem...anyway you are against it...so don't worry