hi! a lot of people regarding ddlg, etc have accused the lifestyle of being... pedophilic. and i understand, but i've done endless amounts of research on it.

i'm no longer part of the ddlg community. i was. about two years ago with my ex and we broke up and i just never felt the same about it.

do your research on the umbrella terms. ddlg. ddlb. mdlg. mdlb. please. and then decide for yourself. i'm not trying to coerce your opinions.

and the reason i'm keeping this story up is because it had well over 45k reads and that's a lot. but also because i want to spread awareness and let people find stories to help them make up their minds.

thank you for reading this.

emily.