(a/n: sorry this may be bad, i'm not really familiar with this type of writing (top, bottom, etc.) and i tried to make it somewhat realistic without adding nsfw stuff, so my apologies if this isn't written as well as my other headcanons and my apologies for this being so short

•so when you both were in a relationship, there wasn't really much discussion as to who would be the so-called "top" and the "bottom," but mark just assumed he would be because well, he's the one who initiated the relationship.

•but he had something coming to him when you both finally been in a relationship for about half a year now. while you both were just hanging out and doing whatever, you suddenly straddled him and started to kiss him, your arms wrapping around him.

•afterwards, mark was looking at you, stunned, since you both hadn't really discussed the what positions you both are/were. but in the end, you both were happy with what you were.

•you always saw ethan as a bottom, at least compared to you, so you just assumed that you were going to be the top in the relationship and he hadn't really brought it up that much.

•once he realized that you were the top after you initiating the first kiss as well as pretty much every kiss after that, he wasn't surprised, considering you asked him to be your boyfriend first off.

•and when you looked at him afterwards, you just saw him blushing like crazy and smiling at you each and every time, which just made you laugh and proved your point that he was and always be the bottom.

•there has been talks on who would the "top" and who would be the "bottom" in the relationship, but those have been jokes since sapnap would say he would be and back it up in a silly way.

•but when you both finally discussed it for real, not in front of cameras/for the stream(s), you said you were a top and he didn't argue since you have shown top type of behavior (a/n: whatever that may be) before.

•so he wasn't surprised when he experienced how much of a top you were and how it made him look very much like a bottom when he found out.