So in 9th grade I had this crush.

The second semester came and I never got to talk to him. But what I noticed is that when he saw me with my friends he came up to me and talked to my friends but only stared at me.

One day he did what he always did but this time my friend left so him and I just stood there quietly ... I didn't have the guts to talk to him for 5 minutes.

Later when there were only two months left of school, I told my friends about him, and they told me he went out with this girl at the beginning and broke his heart badly...

Later we texted and I found out he was not coming back to school. He was going to his zone school. Which sucked.

However, later in 10th grade, I had a new crush. And yes, I still had feelings for my crush in 9th grade - I will call him Guitar Boy. So yeah, like I said, I got a new crush and I would see him after school on Tuesdays for Hosa (a club) and whenever I helped for an event at school.

But that year in February our school had a festival and Guitar Boy was there, and after so many months of not seeing him, I felt more butterflies in my stomach than with my other crush.

Thing is I don't see him, we only text. And with my other crush, he's so adorable, cute, innocent, caring, and always helps me out...

And I don't know what to do, because I have more feelings with Guitar Boy but I can't do anything about it...

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Okay, well, let's start by stating the obvious: you like two guys. One of them doesn't go to the same school as you, and you barely get to talk to him. The second guy, on the other hand, does go to the same school, but I can see that you seem to be having some doubts regarding the intensity of your feelings towards him.

So what can you do?

Well, I see no reason for you not to try something with the second guy. I mean, he clearly sounds like a stand up guy, and Guitar Boy is a little out of reach, considering the fact that you don't really get to talk to him as often, so why not do it?

You may be a little confused now, but perhaps after spending more time with this boy from your school, things will clear up for you. And I'm sure they will.

Try talking to him some more and see how things go. Spend more time with him. Maybe even tell him how you feel. I know I say this a lot, like a lot, but seriously, go for it.

I'm going to say what I said before to someone who had a similar problem. Choose one guy and focus solely on him. In this case I think it should be the guy from yuor school, since you obviously like him, and after all, he might like you back.

Since you feel like Guitar Boy is not going to happen, even though it did seem like he could've liked you, but was too shy to do anything, then this boy from your school seems like a good choice.

I think that if it's meant to happen, it will. If he likes you back and wants to be in a relationship with you, then you will most likely forget about your other crush, especially since you guys don't see each other that often.

Also, I'm going to throw a shot in the dark here and say that your feelings for Guitar Boy might still exist because you're reluctant to pour all of your time in a person that might not even feel the same way. You're keeping Guitar Boy as a back-up, if you will.

If that's true, then I don't think you should be afraid at all. Whatever happens, happens, and after all, everything goes forward.

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