-No taking away comfort items (Blankie, paci, sippy, etc)

-Never do anything nonconsensual/either of you feel uncomfortable with

-No yelling, instead, talk sternly if in trouble (Yelling will only upset the little further)

-No ignoring your little

-Nothing other than a light spank or smack on wrist (no excessive physical punishment)

-Belittle your littles feelings about anything

-Destroy your littles confidence

-Not letting your little take care of their basic needs (Eating, sleeping, etc

-Punishing your little because you want to even when they did nothing wrong

-Telling your little you don't love them anymore/don't want them anymore

-Using your little as an outlet for your anger

-Do anything that scares your little or gives them anxiety